## Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: Love is in the Air, But Wedding Bells? Not So Fast!
Selena Gomez is known for her chart-topping hits, her undeniable style, and her blossoming romance with producer Benny Blanco. But hold your horses, wedding bells haven’t quite chimed in just yet!
The Couple’s Journey and Creative Collaboration
From Friends to Fiancés: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s Relationship Timeline
Years before their relationship turned romantic, Gomez and Blanco released their first song together, “I Can’t Get Enough,” in March 2019. They later started dating in June 2023. A year and a half later, Gomez announced their engagement and shared photos of her marquise diamond ring via Instagram on Dec. 11, 2024, writing, “forever begins now..” Gomez and Blanco’s first musical album as a couple, I Said I Love You First, arrived on Friday, March 21.
The Inspiration Behind Their Joint Album, I Said I Love You First
According to Gomez, working on new music with Blanco became a therapeutic experience. Gomez’s last album, Rare, was released five years ago. “I was, to be honest, very frustrated and kind of confused on where I wanted to go next musically. And we had been together for a while, and obviously I would confide in him,” Gomez admitted. Blanco added, “She’d wake up, I’d have a pen out, and I’d write what was on her mind. Then we’d go into the other room and create it, and it became a song. It was such a cathartic and therapeutic experience.”
The Couple’s Relaxed Approach to Wedding Planning
Selena Gomez and fiancé Benny Blanco aren’t planning their wedding quite yet. During their appearance on the Today show on Friday, March 21, the newly engaged couple discussed their first-ever joint album, I Said I Love You First, and shared why they’re in no rush to plan their wedding.
“So now that the album’s done, do we move on to wedding planning now?” anchor Craig Melvin asked, to which Gomez replied, “No.” The singer and actress, 32, explained that she and Blanco, 37, putting wedding planning on hold is not because they’re not excited for their big day, but because their busy schedules are taking priority at the moment. “I’m actually shooting season 5 of Only Murders right now,” Gomez continued. “You know, he has to do some work stuff, too. To be honest, I’m just enjoying us in this moment, and yeah, then we’ll get to start the craziness.”
Selena Gomez’s Vision for a Casual Wedding Day
The Only Murders in the Building star does know that she wants their wedding day “to be pretty casual.” Meanwhile, Blanco has one wedding must-have. “Pickles, I think,” he said. “What, the pickle slushie?” Gomez asked. Blanco clarified that in a conversation with his fiancée she once remarked, “I want to have little sandwiches with pickles for my friends.” This jogged Gomez’s memory, but pickle sandwiches might not make it on their wedding menu because she said “that’s so weird.”
Benny Blanco’s Unconventional Wedding Must-Have: Pickles!
Blanco has one wedding must-have. “Pickles, I think,” he said. “What, the pickle slushie?” Gomez asked. Blanco clarified that in a conversation with his fiancée she once remarked, “I want to have little sandwiches with pickles for my friends.” This jogged Gomez’s memory, but pickle sandwiches might not make it on their wedding menu because she said “that’s so weird.”
“She really is the cheapest date in the book,” Blanco said with a laugh. “Everything is real easy.”
Conclusion
In a refreshing display of self-awareness and priorities, Selena Gomez has shed light on her decision to take a step back from wedding planning with Benny Blanco. As reported, the singer-actress has been focusing on her mental health and personal growth, acknowledging that she’s not ready to dive into the intricacies of wedding planning just yet. This decision is a testament to Gomez’s commitment to her well-being and her willingness to defy societal pressures.
The significance of Gomez’s stance cannot be overstated. In an era where celebrity weddings are often scrutinized and romanticized, her decision serves as a powerful reminder that relationships and marriage are deeply personal experiences. By prioritizing her own needs and desires, Gomez is setting a positive example for her fans and encouraging them to do the same. As the conversation around mental health and self-care continues to evolve, Gomez’s words of wisdom are a timely reminder that true love and happiness begin with a deep understanding of oneself.
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